Letting Go of Perfect

letting go of perfect

We’re not perfectionists. Maybe not, but sometimes, it feels like it. It’s one thing to expect perfection (or as close as possible) from oneself. But when these same standards are now being applied to our children, they feel harsh, dare I say, perfectionistic. I mentioned this to my husband who disagreed as noted above. But something …

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Choose Joy!

choose joy

Choices. We make literally hundreds to thousands of choices daily, many of which impact our future. We may not even be aware of their effect in the moment. But choices are powerful. One of mine-to choose joy, has had a lasting impact not only in my life but many others.

Choose joy.

A cloak of grief and sadness covered my life. I lost both Mom and Grandma within weeks of each other and it sent me reeling. After a year or so of navigating the heartache, I longed to be free of sadness. My life was ahead of me with a young family who I needed and needed me. I decided to choose joy.

At the time, I didn’t recognize it as joy as much as choosing to let go of negative. I was tired of grief and regret and craved happier. I chose to purposefully seek positive.

When younger, my glass skewed half-empty with negative go-to reactions and worry as the norm. But in my twenties, I had shifted to being more positive. It was a willful choice and soon I was seeing the world as half full.

Then in a blink, the two most influential women in my life were gone.

It was a deep, bruising blow and revived my negative nature.

To read the rest of my post and what I happened when I chose joy, click to see it on my friend Alisa Nicaud’s Flourishing Today blog!

 

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50 Life Lessons Continued

50 life lessons continued

Life is full of lessons, but are we learning them? As I share 50 life lessons continued, this week we’ll break them down by soul, mind and body. As mentioned in my previous post, there are many more, but it’s my prayer these will speak to you and your life. 50 Life Lessons Continued Soul …

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50 Life Lessons

50 life lessons

Life teaches us many lessons along the way. As I approach a milestone birthday soon, let me share 50 life lessons I’ve learned. Continuing my summer theme of listen, learn and let go, a few Bible verses struck a chord. To paraphrase King Solomon, as we listen to God and his wisdom, we will gain …

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Finding Joy Within

finding joy within

It feels selfish and worldly to find joy in or for ourselves. Yet, we long to be joyful. When properly placed after Jesus and others, finding joy within us is a privilege. We honor God, others, and ourselves as we follow His plan for us. We find joy not only in Jesus and others but …

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